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Creating a Fantasy

By: Kate Thompson, Sat Dec 10th, 2005 11:11:53 AM

Everyone should have a fantasy, sexual fantasies simply make sex a whole lot more exciting. When sitting at your work desk wouldn't you rather relive a naughty sexual fantasy then to think of what work task to conquer next. Whether your sexual fantasy is fetish based or plain "vanilla", a fantasy is worthy being indulged and should be, with an open and willing partner. It all boils down to communication. Be honest, what do you have to lose. We live in a sexually repressed society but usually just in admitting to your deepest desires can open all sorts of pleasurable avenues for one and all.

Fantasies should be fun, go ahead get costumed up. Whether he dreams of scoring with the high school cheerleader or seducing the "girl next door", fantasies can easily become a reality with the right costume and an even better attitude. Candidly let your partner know what fantasy you have in mind and let them indulge it. Costumes can set the tone and theme quite easily and don't need to cost a fortune. You can either rent your costume or take the time to score through vintage finds at your local thrift shop. Wigs are a great additive as well as a little creative make-up.

Stay in character, if you really want to satisfy, make like your favorite actor and "become" whoever it is your partner gets a thrill out of. Use an accent, set the tone, create a story to share along with a sexual encounter to remember.

For "theme" fantasy connoisseurs, have your own costume trunk outfitted with a secure lock. Fill your trunk with all sorts of naughty costumes, for example naughty nurse getups, Hugh and his playboy bunny, pirate and wench, damsel and her virgin knight in shining armor. The possibilities are endless.

Be sure to build up the suspense over the week so you can surely have something to revel in on the weekend. Don't be afraid to let go of your inhibitions and get silly!

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