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Personals - Achieving Online Dating Success

By: Jay Bauder, Mon Jan 2nd, 2006 01:21:02 AM

How to prevent an online dating experience failure.

Want to know the people with most successful online dates? Well, these are people who know how to talk to people, who maximize their dating potentials, who check the Internet and connect with others regularly.

But for many other members of online dating sites, it seems that getting a chance to hook up with someone is zilch. What most people post in their ads on the Internet actually don't help them. It's the other way around.

If you do the things below, then say goodbye to your potential mate.

1. Choosing a lewd user name

Online dating sites generally put the user name that you have in your profile. So, if your user name is "nastybabe69" or "hungrywolfXXX," then chances are, you won't find a long-lasting mate. Unless, of course, you really want losers slamming you with emails.

2. No partner requirements

What you seek for a mate says a lot about you. If you are not stating your requirements you leave yourself wide open for all personality types, specifically undesirable ones.

3. No photo

Many online dating members have photos in their profiles. If you don't have a photo in your personal profile, then your ad will be most likely discarded.

4. Don't email or reply prospective mates

Many online dating sites enable you to send a message to a prospective mate. You can also get a message from someone who is interested in you. You could also send other expressions signifying interest like virtual kisses or smiles. Don't write nor reply to them. Someone might take interest in you. You don't want that to to happen, don't you?

5. Keep your ad bare

If your ad is almost empty to carry additional information about you that might interest people or it is too general, it would be better leave it at that. Making a good, detailed ad might give you positive results.

6. Do not go to the website - ever again

After you have put your online ad, never come back to the site again. Do not even attempt to check the emails from the site announcing that it got several choices for you. After posting the ad, forget coming back to the website again. Otherwise, you might be tempted to see that someone might be actually interested in knowing you better.

If you got all six of these guidelines, you do not have to worry in getting successful online dating.

About the author:

Jay is the web owner of http://www.singles-in.com Online Singles, a website that provides information and resources on personals, dating, and singles. You can visit his website at: http://www.personals-in.com Online Personals

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